I was invited to a massive bridal shower/gift grab orgy 100+ .Can I just give a card? I RSVP’d before I knew about this insanity. Since then the stressed out Maid of Honor was dismissed for protesting the thousands of dollars it would cost her to throw the party. The original guest list had only [...]

Appropriate Shower Gift for coworker? I have just started a new job and have been invited to a potluck wedding shower. I have never met the woman (though I’m flattered to be asked–the department has really made me feel welcomed and involved me in everything from the get-go). My question is, what, if anything should [...]